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The charisma myth
Who Else Believes That Charisma Is Something You Either Have or Don’t? She seemed intrigued. The meeting had one focus: my speechwriting and ghostwriting services. I sat across from them—the top executive and his head of department—explaining how the right words, delivered the right way, can inspire, persuade, and drive action. I was in my zone, fully engaged, and confident they’d see the value. They seemed to agree. I continued. Why take on this extra responsibility when there are already so many pressing matters? And why not bring in someone from the outside—someone who can offer a fresh perspective, cut through the jargon, and speak the language that resonates with…
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Unlock Your Voice, Inspire Your Audience
Imagine this: you’ve just been invited to speak in front of 500 people. Hold on a second : What rush of emotions do you feel? Excitement? Pressure? Every time I was invited to speak—despite my growing experience and confidence—these thoughts would rush through my mind in an instant: First, there was that thrill of excitement, quickly followed by the weight of responsibility and the familiar flutter of nerves (which, by the way, never really disappears—and that’s perfectly fine!). Then came the moment of self-reflection: How do I feel about myself? What impression do I want to leave? What’s the right dress code? How should I style my hair? What makeup…
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The silent dealbreaker
Why soft skills matter more than you think I had been eagerly anticipating this conference. My husband and I rushed there straight after work, excited to arrive on time and reconnect with people we hadn’t seen in ages. The event began with the usual welcoming remarks, followed by the much-anticipated guest speaker. He seemed highly regarded—competent, even. But as he clicked his remote and the first slide appeared, something immediately felt off. The visuals were a disaster. Poorly aligned slides, low-resolution images, clashing colors—no effort had been made to create an engaging experience. It lacked respect for the audience’s eyes. I tried to stay focused, but the following slides only…
